The business of being a husband, a good husband does not happen incidentally. A man must work at being a good husband. If you are an unmarried and reading this hub, it will help you to be a great husband. There are some habits men have that annoy women to the core.
TV viewing habits
Women often make disparaging comments about TV viewing habits of men especially watching endless sports programs Women believe that the size of your TV is in inverse proportion to the size of your brain.
Disorderliness
Women hate to see things out of place, distorting their goals for each room. Most of them are so organized that they believe “A place for everything and everything in its place.” They want to maintain their home in immaculate condition. Some men are fond of pulling their shirts and dropping them scattered in the living room, or abandoned their shoes all over the place or a wet towel on the bed. All these disorderliness get on women’s nerves.
Irresponsibility
Women hate irresponsible men. Men who are not capable of caring for the family. They prefer to waste their money on frivolous things rather than take care of their families.
Drunkenness
Women hate it when their partners become drunk and constitute a nuisance in public. What a disappointing, demeaning, disgusting and dark day it must be for a woman when her husband gets drunk in a social event. The man she once thought to be her hero now causes her to be ashamed, because there are people watching.
Lack of intimacy
Take time to sit and talk with her. Let her know your thought and feelings. Be careful how you talk to her when you’re angry. Look for her good qualities. Tell her often how good you are for these qualities. When she does something kind, thank her. He loves my body, but does not love me. He loves sex, but show little affection. Tell your wife I love you always and tell her why you love her.
The gathering of junks
Some men have the habit of gathering junks. They find it different to dispose their non-functional or obsolete appliances. One mobile phone, one charger—it's all you need. But no, some men will have wires crawling round the house like vines. Then the drawers are full of old cables that look like nests of vipers. Some old phones, cameras and computers, keys are things they no longer needed but a reluctant to throw away. Those old shoes, books and clothes, those empty wine glasses and old magazines only help to congest the house.
Adjusting the privates
Adjusting the privates is a habit most women hate. This isn’t something that you grow out of after puberty. It may not be sexual, and may just be for the purposes of comfort but it is something that women often complain about. Despite the reason, it isn’t the most hygienic practice for a man to be handling his manhood all the time.
Lack of appreciation
You promised to love and cherish your wife when you married, so love her. A woman asked her husband why he didn’t tell her he loved her anymore and he replied. “I told you once, and I’ve not changed my mind about that; assuming I did, I would have told you.” This is not good enough. Every woman wants to hear “I appreciate the way you work hard to care for our kids, or home etc. Bring her gifts if you can as a token of your appreciation.
Selective hearing
Men all over the world have sat in front a television and watched a program while their wife or girlfriend attempted to initiate conservation with them to no avail. Pretending to listen to her or selectively listening to her is more annoying to women than just not listening at all.
Disorderliness
Women hate to see things out of place, distorting their goals for each room. Most of them are so organized that they believe “A place for everything and everything in its place.” They want to maintain their home in immaculate condition. Some men are fond of pulling their shirts and dropping them scattered in the living room, or abandoned their shoes all over the place or a wet towel on the bed. All these disorderliness get on women’s nerves.
Irresponsibility
Women hate irresponsible men. Men who are not capable of caring for the family. They prefer to waste their money on frivolous things rather than take care of their families.
Drunkenness
Women hate it when their partners become drunk and constitute a nuisance in public. What a disappointing, demeaning, disgusting and dark day it must be for a woman when her husband gets drunk in a social event. The man she once thought to be her hero now causes her to be ashamed, because there are people watching.
Lack of intimacy
Take time to sit and talk with her. Let her know your thought and feelings. Be careful how you talk to her when you’re angry. Look for her good qualities. Tell her often how good you are for these qualities. When she does something kind, thank her. He loves my body, but does not love me. He loves sex, but show little affection. Tell your wife I love you always and tell her why you love her.
The gathering of junks
Some men have the habit of gathering junks. They find it different to dispose their non-functional or obsolete appliances. One mobile phone, one charger—it's all you need. But no, some men will have wires crawling round the house like vines. Then the drawers are full of old cables that look like nests of vipers. Some old phones, cameras and computers, keys are things they no longer needed but a reluctant to throw away. Those old shoes, books and clothes, those empty wine glasses and old magazines only help to congest the house.
Adjusting the privates
Adjusting the privates is a habit most women hate. This isn’t something that you grow out of after puberty. It may not be sexual, and may just be for the purposes of comfort but it is something that women often complain about. Despite the reason, it isn’t the most hygienic practice for a man to be handling his manhood all the time.
Passing gas
Women hate fouling of the air. Whatever form it may take, it is repellent to a woman. You may see nothing wrong with it, but nothing is more likely to put an early end to a night of passion than releasing smelly air.
Complaining partners
“Every time, my husband enters the house, he complains. Must you cook vegetable this way? Why are my clothes not ironed? You are damned lazy,” a woman lamented. So complain less and try to be more understanding especially if she is a working woman.
Lack of satisfaction in Bed
Women hate it when their men can’t satisfy their sexual needs. Try to satisfy the sexual needs of your wives. 1 Corinthian 7:3-4 says, “Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence; and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband; and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.”
Unhelpful men
Help her with the work at home. I’m so busy. Every afternoon when I arrive home from work, I cook and care for the children.
Staring
Women absolutely despise catching their men staring at other women. Women ogle too, visually admiring the opposite sex just as much as their male counterparts, except they generally do it with a greater level of subtlety. Your partner will be annoyed, threatened, embarrassed, and she is likely also angered by the fact that you can’t do it discreetly.
Selfish men
Women hate when their partners are selfish. Do you constantly put your wife down with unkind remarks? Do you demand to have your own way most of the time? do you spend far more money on yourself or your hobbies than you do for your wife and children? Then you are a selfish man. Change these attitudes.
Cheaters
Women hate it when their husbands or partners cheat on them. No sex outside marriage. “It was a horrible day when I found my husband in bed with a girl. I never thought he would do such a thing,” a woman told me.
Wife battery
A man is the head of the family, but you must be careful that in being the head, you are not a bully. William F. Hill in his book, The Excellent husband described a bully this way, “A bully is a blustering, browbeating person who is habitually cruel to others, especially to those whom he feels to be weaker.” A woman said, “I had to leave my husband. He beats me such that my life was in danger.”
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