35 THINGS A WOMAN MUST KNOW ABOUT MEN

Many women are frustrated by the way the men they love behave. Of course you should know that there are things you need to do to win a man’s heart. It’s not impossible to win a man’s heart; it’s just that many women don’t have the key. These tips might help you know things men like.

·         Men like ladies with a good sense of humor. Try to be humorous by telling jokes. A man feels good about you when he sees you smiling.

·         Men are irresistibly drawn towards a woman who doesn’t need a man to make her happy, who isn’t looking for a man’s approval to define her worth, who has a passionate, purposeful life of her own, and yet also deeply values, cherishes and appreciates a man’s love in her life.

·         Men like teaching ladies new things. They are adventurous.

·         Men love woman who makes him better. Your man will also value you more when you make him a better person. If you inspire him to be a better man; he will open more to you, he would see you as a dependable partner and you will win his heart. Creating value is a very important way to win a man’s heart.

·         Patience is very important when trying to attract a man.

·         Men like women who cook for them. An old adage says that, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.”  To cook for someone is to cater to one of their most basic human needs and cooking can be extremely intimate. It requires hard work and careful thought. And if you cook his favorite food, you would have proved just how willing you are to place his personal tastes above your own.

·         Most men don’t like ladies who are stronger than they are. Think of the women who always beat their husbands. Many regard it as a taboo. The men like to dominate not the other round.

·         Men are more open than ladies. Women tend to be more secretive.

·         Men don’t like to be outshined by their partners. It might be selfish but it is true. This is why there is always problems in homes where the women are the breadwinners.

·         Men don’t like girls who wear too much perfume. They tend to believe she might be hiding body odor.

·         Men love knowing that their woman admires them. And that most especially includes you, his wife.  And in doing so, you will touch his heart in a very deep way. Tell him you're proud of him for being so good at something he does well — whether it's his job, the way he handled that difficult situation at home, or even handling the kids. If you think he's romantic and funny, let him know. Don't leave him guessing at how you feel about him.

·         Men can’t stand ladies who don’t accept compliments. Though, such women are few.

·         If a man says that he loves you, don’t subject him to questioning. Monitor his actions if you are in doubt. Men hate to be doubted.

·         If a man cries in front of you, he is really in pain. Do what you can to ease the pain.

·         A man’s threshold for physical pain is much less than that of a lady. Think of the pain borne by women during childbirth.

·         Men like intelligent ladies; they have more initiative, of course.

·         Men like good food. It is often said that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

·         Men can do crazy things to get the ladies they love. Think of the guy who shot a US president to show the extent he loved her.

·         Most men love their mothers.

·         Men like ladies in high heels. High shoes have a way of giving women attractive pose. The manner in which a woman walks, stands and sits have a lot to tell about her confidence at that moment. Wearing high shoes are known enhancements that even more strongly allow legs to evoke feminine sexuality and enhance female sexual power.   

·         Men don’t like ladies that flirt with their friends. It shows the lady has low self-esteem.

·         Men like ladies that are well groomed.

·         Men like ladies who are available but not too available.

·         Men don’t like dirty women. Clean and well dressed women are always pleasant sight to behold.

·         A man will try to get a lady, even if she rejects him at first. Men derive excitement tackling and subduing difficult task.

·         Men hate admitting they are sick. It is not a sign of a macho man; many men want to display. Men are conditioned to be tough, competitive and independent. When they don’t behave this way, they are bullied, ridiculed, shamed, ignored and looked down upon. Because of this, men suppress their feelings, hide their emotions, ignore their pain and never ask for help.

·         Man appreciates a woman who not only respects his need for space and time apart but is also comfortable with it because one of the biggest fears men have when they enter into a relationship is losing their independence. In order to reassure themselves that they are not trapped in a relationship and can still continue doing things that they love in life, men often feel the need to pull away and spend time alone.

·         Men hate going to the doctor. Except a man is very sick, he keeps away from doctors and hospitals. Most times, they are encouraged to go to the doctor by their loved ones.

·         Most men love children and will want children, eventually.

·         Most men enjoy outdoor activities such as hiking, football, camping. Most men are extroverts.

·         Men don’t like ladies who pretend. It is more appreciated if a woman can be herself instead of pretending to be what she is. If the man discovers he has been fooled he is likely to end the relationship, or will never trust such woman.

·         Men are flirtatious by nature. He feels good about you when you playfully flirt and are having fun. Try to be close to him so he does not see the need to seek other’s company.

·         Men like slim, shapely ladies. This is not absolute. Some men like women with curves but not the obsess type. So a woman should endeavor to maintain acceptable shape if she wants to keep her man. It is vital for him to see that you take care of yourself physically. That doesn't mean you have to be a supermodel. Being attractive more likely comes when a woman takes care of herself and stays healthy.

·         Men like sexy ladies. This why attract most men in the first place before they start to see the other virtues of the woman. How a woman looks is important in retaining a her man. Infidelity is sometimes triggered by the unattractive look of their wives or partners.  

·         Men enjoy lovemaking. When not satisfied with what is available at home, he heads outside. This is the greatest cause of infidelity. Once the wife can’t perform well in bed, the man is in most cases go out to satisfy their urge.